Angela Sheehan and Margaret McCourt’s mother-daughter relationship
Angela's AshesAngela Sheehan and Margaret McCourt’s mother-daughter relationship begins as the answer to Angela’s wish for a daughter and ends in a sudden bereavement that leaves Angela unable to speak or move. Margaret’s brief life is surrounded by affection, but her death in the pram near Angela’s bed becomes one of the family’s defining losses, recalled amid the poverty and repeated deaths that shape the children’s childhood.
Longing and welcome
Before Margaret is born, Angela has no daughter to sing the children’s song to. Minnie MacAdorey tells Frank not to frown and imagines that one day he will have a little sister to sing it to. The prediction is fulfilled: Angela has a baby girl, and the family names her Margaret. Her arrival brings a burst of joy into a household marked by want. Frank remembers her black curly hair and blue eyes like Angela’s, her waving hands, and her small chirping sounds. Minnie says heaven celebrated the day Margaret was made; Mrs. Leibowitz admires her eyes and smile and says the baby makes her dance.
Angela’s welcome is part of a wider family tenderness, but it is specifically her longed-for daughter who gives that happiness its shape. Her resemblance to her mother is noted from the beginning, and the intimacy between them is conveyed through Angela’s care and attention rather than through an extended account of their time together. The narrative’s brief portrait makes Margaret’s arrival feel precious precisely because the family has so little else to celebrate.
A short life in the family home
Margaret lives for seven weeks. In the night when her illness becomes apparent, Angela wakes and asks what is wrong with the child. Frank sees his father, Malachy, by the window rocking the baby and sighing; Angela asks whether she is sick. The scene turns from ordinary parental concern to irreversible loss when Malachy returns with a doctor. After examining Margaret, the doctor says she is gone.
The doctor asks whether there has been an accident, whether anyone dropped the baby, or whether the boys played too roughly with her. Malachy shakes his head. He signs the paper allowing the doctor to take Margaret for examination, while Angela begs for a few more minutes with her child. When Malachy reaches for the baby, Angela pulls away against the wall, holding Margaret and shaking her head. Only when he eases the child from her arms can the doctor wrap her in a blanket and leave. Angela cries out in fear that the wrapping will smother the baby, a plea that registers the shock of separation even as Margaret is already dead.
Grief and the pram
After the doctor leaves, Angela turns to the wall and makes no move or sound. Later, Mrs. Leibowitz helps her sit upright and brings the bereaved mother’s attention back to the room. Angela presses Frank’s hand to her cheeks and calls him Frankie, but the narration makes clear that her attention is fixed on Margaret, not on the boy holding her hand. She says her daughter is dead and asks where her father is; she blames Malachy’s drinking and the family’s lack of money, repeating that he can find money for drink even when he cannot find work.
Angela’s grief repeatedly returns to the circumstances of the death. She screams for her little girl, then explains that Margaret was in her pram near her bed, alone in the middle of the night. She says she should have been watching her and wonders whether she could have picked her up before she died. Mrs. Leibowitz tries to comfort her by saying babies die and that God takes them, but this explanation does not settle Angela’s anguish. The pram, an ordinary object close to the mother’s bed, becomes the focus of her painful counterfactual: Margaret was near enough to reach, yet Angela believes she failed to save her.
Loss within a sequence of bereavements
Margaret’s death is not an isolated sorrow in the family’s history. Frank’s recollection begins with the family’s return from New York after Margaret is already dead and gone. Later, when Oliver dies, Malachy tries to take Frank out to find food, explaining that Margaret and Oliver have both died and that the family is in danger of losing the others through want. The sequence links Angela’s loss of her daughter to the household’s broader exposure to hunger, illness, and the deaths of children.
The relationship also persists through memory. When Frank later tells St. Francis about the things that trouble him, he names Margaret alongside Oliver and Eugene, his father’s drinking and absence, and other injuries that have marked the family. Her brief life is thus carried forward not through further shared scenes with Angela, but through the bereaved family’s repeated remembrance. The contrast between the radiant welcome at her birth and Angela’s desolation beside the empty space left by her death gives the relationship its lasting significance: a few weeks of maternal joy are inseparable from a grief that the household cannot put away.